Creating an attractive profile is really important online. Before anyone wants to chat, flirt or even meet, they want to know who they are talking to. Here are some tips to make sure your profile catches the eyes of as many ‘friends with benefits’ as possible.
Choosing the right pictures is the first step.
Use recent photos. We’d recommend adding photos taken of you within the last year. Better yet, why not take a selfie now and upload it straight to your profile. Remember, no one wants to hookup with someone who looks 10 years older than their profile photo.
Whilst we appreciate that you may be shy at first, having a facial photo is really important. As much as your dick pic is getting our female members hot and horny, they’d really like to see your face. Plus this really helps when they fantasise about you...
You should be the focus in all your photos. They’ll be sleeping with you, not your mates so forget the group shots. Solo photos only please.
Once you have the right photos, also having an interesting and sexy profile will result in others wanting to message and meet you.
Of course, they want to hear about your sexual desires, what you like and what you don’t like. But they also want you to be clear about what kind of casual relationship you are looking for. How often do you want to meet? Where do you want to meet? Will you be staying the night? Be honest about what you’re looking for.
Don’t leave anything blank. The more information you complete, the quicker they’ll know if they want to meet you. Some criteria is really important so make sure you fill in all your interests and characteristics. Yes, they do really want to know your height, your favourite position and whether you use protection so make sure you fill it in.
Taking the time to complete your profile fully, will increase your chances of meeting the perfect friend with benefits. Should you need help, make sure you use our FAQ section as this will give you further hints and tips to ensure you are successful in your sexual conquest!
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes a good profile photo for a dating site?
A clear, recent photo where you are the main subject, ideally smiling, in natural light. Multiple photos help — include at least one face photo and one that shows you in a context (a hobby, a place you like). Avoid heavily filtered photos and group shots where it is hard to tell which person is you.
What should I write in my dating profile bio?
Be specific rather than generic. 'I enjoy hiking in the Peak District and cooking from scratch' is more interesting than 'I like going out and staying in'. Be honest about what you are looking for so potential matches self-select before they even contact you. Keep it relatively brief — a few sentences is enough.
Does the order of photos matter on a dating profile?
Yes. Your first photo is the one that appears in search results and determines whether someone clicks on your profile. Make it your best, most representative photo. After that, variety matters — different contexts, different expressions, a sense of who you actually are.